What Hurts the Most?

Another part of my relationship talk preceeding from the previous on getting over with break ups. This time I decided to help answer some of my friends' question on "What hurts the most?" In this edition, I am going to talk about what hurts the most as in getting dumped by someone or dumping someone since I've gone through that before.

~Getting dumped by someone or dumping someone hurts more?~

Friends of mine often say that getting dump by someone hurts more than dumping someone. Personally I think dumping someone actually hurts more. Why?

Here's why;

I know a lot of people would argue with my views here.

But let's just put it this way, getting dumped is not a very hurting issue because after a matter of say 3-4 months you won't feel the pain anymore since that pain kicked in that very second you got dump. Yes it's true and that's why most people be it the guy or the girl, cries more that very second they got dumped. And normally within a few months or weeks they would notice how stupid it was to cry till their eyes get so dry for someone who didn't really appreciate what he/she has done. Moving on for people who got dumped is rather hard at the beginning but when new things starts to unfold day after day, they will find it easier to move on and get over with what has happened and really put it aside and really really leave that matter behind.

However, for the person who dumped their partners, they would only feel the pain after some period of time when they come to realize that how important you really are to them and how much things they have actually prepared and made for you. This pain would only come when they finally see you moving on (as usual) and going out with someone new whom he/she tresures very much and how you wished you could ever get that back once again. Like wise, these people in this category of "dumping the other" they normally have a head start in getting over and moving on with life. But somehow or rather, when they turn back after some period of time they do weep in tears because they realized they make the wrong choice to call an end to the relationship with their partner. The pain is somewhat unexplainable becuase here pain is not measurable in terms of words. It's in the heart and soul.

I hope with this, those who asked me this question would get their answer.