Change...

Words of wisdoms always comes to me in various forms. Be it through the word of mouth or through the media. But mroe often then not, it comes from the very mouths of my parents and sometimes some close friends.

There are a couple of somewhat called quotes which I have came across and I use it very often as a principle of life. One is which is the change. You see it's much easier to say that you would like to change someone but when it comes to yourself it's much harder than you think. I always remind myself these days that, in order to change the person I care for so much, the change must first come from me.

Yes it's easier said than done. But it's all about the courage and perseverance one has to take. Changes can be small but yet drastic to one's life. As for me there are much for me to do to change into a better person myself.

I remind myself of these things every time I have an argument with her;

STOP being selfish. STOP being impatient. STOP being hot tempered. CONTROL yourself.

I know there are lots of things which I need to do to redeem myself for hurting her so much. Only I know what I should do from now on till the end of my life.

A famous quote from the show Forest Gump;

" Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you gonna get."

Kudos.