Birthday. SO what?

It was a wonderful and joyous day for the whole of yesterday until night fall. OK I know it was your B-I-G, big day for you but it doesn't make you any king of the whole world or does it make you the king of the day. I mean so what it was your birthday man, I had mine too and it was nothing special just that I had my friends celebrating it with me in COE right after calculus on the 5th last month. It was just any ordinary day.

OK to get things clear, let's look outside of the big box. Like I already mentioned, being a birthday boy or a birthday girl doesn't make you any king or queen. OK maybe some of you may look at it that way. Come be realistic dude. Just because it's your big day it doesn't mean that you can ask everybody to do as you like or favour or what ever mate. Yes I am talking about you asking my girlfriend to stop texting me for the night just because she's at your place having a BBQ party together with your other mates. You have no rights to ask her to do that although it's a fact that it's your birthday. Even I don't give orders to my girlfriend like that and I have never done it. I just give advises but never actually give orders or instructions to do this or that. I don't do that so who are you in the right frame of mind you think you are. The only person she can take orders from is her very own parents and not me, or you or any other friends in the large society.

Regardless of whoever you are, you don't stand in the right frame of mind to give anyone orders to do as you please as you are no one but just a friend. I am pretty pissed with what you did man. You may say that it was a joke but both of us took your words seriously. I mean if she herself didn't want to text me during the period of time I don't mind and I am perfectly fine and cool with it. But you asking her to do that?! Of course I am not cool. Who you think you are???

OK I know you may think that I am overly sensitive and take things too seriously and being over protective over her. Come on man you haven't got to know what I have gone through before like 5 years ago and I don't wanna lose someone who is so special and brings so much meaning, joy and spirit in life in anyway be it accidentally or for some other causes. And moreover you are still new with your current girl and it seems like you don't know how to offer protection and constant care and concern for your own girl.

Hello look at my relationship. We have been going out for 2 years already and all is well because the both of us (me and my girlfrind) nurture each other with tender loving care for each other every other day, every other hour and every other minute. Once you have reach the 1st year you know will be protective over your own girl belive me. I am not the only one who is protective over her. You will soon someday be like me or even worse!